Tuesday, August 20, 2013

There are ways to fight procrastination but sometimes, it’s actually productive


Q: What is one thing you have learned from this experience?
A: Not to procrastinate!
This is the answer I have heard time and time again while attending the many town celebration weekends this past summer from queen, princess and miss candidates as well as participants in other activities.
I am here to say, no matter how hard you try, you will never stop procrastinating!
I have gone through high school, college, and now a “real-life” job where I procrastinate every single day.
There will always be something — thanks to thinks like the internet, Pinterest, Facebook, television and many other activities — that seems much more fun than what you are doing.
So how does one overcome this problem?
I have found that if you procrastinate with something you are already procrastinating you will actually get something done through procrastination.
In other words, trick yourself into doing your to-do list.
Tribune reporter Jeanne Edson and I encountered just recently when we thought cleaning was a much better idea than beginning to write any more stories.
However, the office desperately did need to be cleaned and after our nice little break work continued.
Not to mention I think Jeanne scored a few points with all of us and who doesn’t want some of those in their pockets?
Just goes to show that sometimes procrastination can be productive as well as useful to us all.
Some tips I have received are to admit you are a procrastinator. Know this about yourself and work with it.
If it is a huge project (like a research paper, for example) do it in steps. Break it up.
Find a few sources one day, read through them the next, and after you believe you have plenty of material you can piece it together. This way even if the piecing it together happens the night before it is due you will be set!
Finally don’t aim for perfection! This is a list set by you and when you get done with it you’re the only one that has to be completely happy with it.

Tuesday, August 6, 2013

They are our moms and we love them!


We  love to label our moms. There are soccer moms, teen moms, hip moms, helicopter moms, stay-at-home moms, working moms, super moms and numerous others.
And now we can add moms who drink wine.


On store shelves wine glasses are being referred to as mommy’s sippy cup and chardonnay playdates have become the new trend.
But is this title a good depiction of moms?
I believe this debate, along with other media sites, is a question of equality.
It never seemed wrong that a man came home from a long day of work and drank beer (many cartoons and TV shows back up this theory) but moms were always home all day or working all day and then still had to cook, then clean, then put the kids to bed, all without having a single rewarding drink.
A study that appeared in the December 2011 issue of Alcoholism: Clinical and Experimental Research, which tracked alcohol consumption in those born after World War II, suggested that the move toward gender equality may correlate with higher drinking rates. This suggests that more women have the opportunity, and the pressure, to socialize for work and “drink like men.”
It is common, or at least shown in numerous sitcoms, that people that include “entertaining clients” are usually seen at fancy restaurants or bars kicking back a few adult beverages. But why in this day and age are women the only ones being scrutinized?
Either way, wine companies are taking the concept and running with it. Some market their wine as “the new bubble bath” or way to unwind, one calls themselves “Mommy Juice” and there is a best-selling book called “Naptime Is The New Happy Hour.”
I myself, while single and childless, have begun to buy into the new wine-era and become somewhat of a wino myself.
My wanting wine stems from another obsession hitting the world: Pinterst.
Pinterest is a website that provides the tool for collecting and organizing things you love.
For me it is a craft heaven and one of my mom’s and my favorite thing to craft with are empty wine bottles!
My mother has colored them orange to make them into pumpkins and used chalkboard paint on them to create erasable signs. So while the inside of the bottle is enjoyable, the outside can be just as fun.
Just because moms have babies doesn’t mean they lose their fun carefree side, they are just forced to hide it a little more between their schedules and their kids’ schedules.
With so many moms in the world, how can we not expect them to be the target of some product or another. Do we all remember the mom-jeans?

Saturday, August 3, 2013